Runt's rant #12,879.....
"[We] should have let him finish out here .... " ????? What ????
Need I remind anyone that he chose to leave?
If he had wanted to stay, we would've surely allowed it. Barney would've gladly preferred that. But that's not reality. He CHOSE TO LEAVE.
what about that do you not understand? WE SHOULD HAVE LET HIM .....
wtf ?
No revisionist history can ever forgive CCC in my eyes. He doubled down on his failed ego and philosophy, let his pride and hubris guide him. Pride.... it's Satan's favorite sin. And Cal himself freely admits he's a poor miserable sinner..... he turned to Father Joe, wasn't it? To look for divine guidance just before he chose to leave.
Cal self descirbed himself as a poor, miserable sinner. Turned to his priest, and then decided to leave.
His priest should have advised him :
Your ego and pride has led you to this situation. And now you are looking at me for guidance as to what you should do?
Try humbling yourself *just a little bit* at this point. Kentucky fans are frustrated and unhappy with you because of your own failures, to which you are not owning up to. You have thrown many of them under the bus, your choice of the derisive term "Basketball Benny" is proof positive of your own failure to recognize how you are at fault. You've become defensive towards the fans, and that is proof positive that there is validity in what they have been saying. You prove their points for them. Calling them names is unprofessional, a weak response for a man in your position. Calling them names proves to me that they have many valid points, and you cannot accept your own failures. You prove them right with your actions and words.
You need to see how you have underachieved with this immense amount of talent you have brought in for 15 years, and the results you are getting with that talent - it is a pitiful failure that should not be tolerated by the Basketball Bennies, or anyone else at Kentucky. Especially you.
You have the power to turn all of this around, to change the future and what your legacy will truly be at Kentucky, and for yourself as a coach. You can leave now, and continue failing, because you are incapable of admitting when you are wrong. Incapable of admitting you have failed at your job. You can leave and fail to accept your own failures and you will continue failing because of it.
But it doesn't mean you have to double down on your pride and hubris and continue without making a positive change for the future, and for yourself, as well as Kentucky. Leaving now would be the ultimate failure, and the ultimate failing grade for your time spent at Kentucky. You may have won a title, but you will be seen to have ultimately FAILED.
If that's what you want, then by all means, leave.
But if you stay, you need to make some HUGE changes, starting with your "poor, miserable, sinning self." It would be best for you to recognize your own failures, embrace them, and make a change for the better, show loyalty to the program and people that have supported you, and will continue to support you .... but only if you can get down off your high horse and admit to the error of your ways. A little humility and embracing change with optimism and forgiveness .... that would redeem you.
and we all know what he did, what he chose. He left. Taking the coward's way out of his own failures without accepting responsibility or admitting to the failure.
No SoS, even if it we could have influenced his decision to stay, we shouldn't have let him finish out here. Not without changes from him that were needed. The cancer that grew into malignancy here is gone, thankfully.
Since I'm ranting, let me share another story :
I swear, on a personal note, some of you are still acting like a bitter, sad ex boyfriend of a beautiful ex girlfriend, where CCC is concerned. You want to forgive her for all the times she failed you. Desperate to cling to a failed relationship that had no future. She left for a rich fresh new boyfriend, and you are bitter and hurt and are still unable to truly move on. But the fault was not you, it was always, ALWAYS, on her.
When I was a younger man (much younger! lol) I dated my own "Miss America." Dated her for two years. She was brilliant, beautiful beyond any other woman for years on campus. A 2 time back to back Miss Tennessee. Talented. All those things. But she hid some truly dark, miserable and sinful ways. Even I did not know until she wrote the book about herself that explained so much of what was really going on with her back then. The book became a top ten NY Times best seller back in the day, even!
And when we brokeup that fateful day, when she embraced a new fresh boyfriend, I immediately let go of her. People said I wouldn't survive it. How could I ever recover? I'd never have anyone more beautiful or as perfect and sweet, and kind, as she was.
I laughed at that notion. I knew the truth of the matter.
Time has proven me to be much the wiser. My life improved without her, has been great, actually. I've had so many beautiful female companions throughout my life, most men couldn't believe it. I'm 57 years old and in the past 2 years alone, I've had the hottest, sexiest, coolest girlfriends I have ever had in the whole of my rock and roll life, it's crazy good, great even. I must have done something right, to come thru my cancerous brain tumor at 27 and broken back at 38, stuck in that wheelchair from 08 - 2015. To have survived that, overcome it all, got back on my feet (literally) and people look at me and say : I look like I'm 30, 40 tops..... that I look great and have really taken care of myself very well, not even knowing what HELL I have gone thru in my life to get to this point....
And I see her now, and how she has changed. Plastic boobs, so much plastic surgery that she is so far removed from the natural beauty she was, that woman no longer exists.
CCC is like that hot ex girlfriend you once had, where you cling to the false memory of it all being good and great, and how you would so much love to go back to it.
Trust me, moving forward, when you are on the right path, that path that God has placed before you, and you stay faithful and true to it over your life, you are always better off.
Conditions might not be so great in the immediate aftermath of such a failed relationship. But in time, if you stay positive, remain faithful to your higher power, you'll find yourself in much better shape. You may have to go thru the fire a couple times before you realize that you are better off. Were ... better off ... than to have stayed where you were.
Word to the wise.
Stay patient, faithful, humble, be a positive individual. Remaining so will give you strength that you otherwise might not realize you have inside you.
I don't usually quote scripture, but I'll make an exception here.
Ecclesiastes 7 8. ( it would do well to look it up if you don't know it )
Calipari should have opened up the Bible and simply read that, instead of turning to Father Joe.
***rant off***